A Guide to Male Sex Toys: Enhancing Pleasure and Exploration
Adult toys aren’t just for women – there’s a wide world of pleasure products designed specifically for men. Whether you’re new to sex toys or looking to expand your collection, this guide will introduce you to some popular options to enhance your solo or partnered experiences.
Strokers and Masturbators
Male masturbators are designed to simulate the sensations of penetrative sex. Some key features to consider:
Texture: Ribbed, dotted, or smooth interiors offer different sensations
Material: Silicone, TPE, and Cyberskin are body-safe options
Open-ended vs. closed: Open allows for easier cleaning, and closed can create suction
Popular brands include Fleshlight, Tenga, and Satisfyer Men.
Prostate massagers
Prostate massagers are specialized sex toys designed for anal use to stimulate the prostate gland in people with prostates, typically men and some transgender or non-binary individuals. The prostate is often called the “male G-spot” due to its potential to produce intense sensations and orgasms when stimulated.
These devices are shaped with a curve to reach and apply pressure to the prostate, which is located a few inches inside the rectum towards the front of the body. Quality prostate massagers are designed with safety and comfort in mind:
- Material: Medical-grade silicone is preferred as it’s non-porous, easy to clean, and body-safe.
- Shape: The curved design helps target the prostate effectively.
- Base: A flared base is crucial to prevent the toy from being inserted too far.
- Size: They come in various sizes to accommodate different experience levels.
- Features: Some models offer vibration settings or can be controlled remotely.
When using a prostate massager, it’s important to use plenty of lubricant and to start slowly. Many users report that prostate stimulation can lead to more intense orgasms or even hands-free orgasms
Cock Rings
These rings fit around the base of the penis and/or testicles to enhance erections and delay ejaculation. Options include:
Stretchy silicone rings for beginners
Adjustable leather or nylon straps
Vibrating rings for partner pleasure
Cock rings can also be used as couples sex toys to enhance intimacy and elevate shared experiences.
Penis Pumps
Designed to temporarily increase size through suction, penis pumps can also be used to help achieve erections. Look for:
Comfortable, body-safe materials
Easy-to-use pressure release valves
Optional vibration features
Some penis pumps fall under the category of ‘luxury sex toys’ due to their advanced features and high-quality materials.
Remember, communication with partners and prioritizing safety are key when exploring sex toys. Clean your toys properly and use appropriate lubricants to enhance your experience. We hope this guide helps you discover new ways to explore pleasure! Visit our store for personalized recommendations and to see our full selection of men’s products.
Consider Your Goals and Preferences
Think about what kind of stimulation you’re looking for:
Clitoral, vaginal, or anal stimulation
Internal vs external use
Vibration, suction, or manual stimulation
Solo play or partner use
Reflect on your comfort level with different sizes, shapes, and intensities. If you’re new to sex toys, starting with something smaller and simpler is often recommended. Considering your goals and preferences can help you find the best sex toys for your needs.
Choose Body-Safe Materials
Opt for non-porous, body-safe materials like:
Medical-grade silicone
ABS plastic
Glass
Stainless steel
Avoid porous materials like jelly rubber or PVC, which can harbor bacteria.
Male sex toys are made from these body-safe materials and should be used according to the instructions to ensure safety.
Evaluate Features and Functions
Consider features that may enhance your experience:
Multiple vibration patterns and intensities
Rechargeable vs battery-powered
Waterproof for bath/shower use
Remote control or app connectivity
Quiet operation if discretion is needed
Set a Budget
Quality toys can range from $30 to $200+. While you don’t need to spend a fortune, very cheap toys may use low-quality materials or break easily. Aim for the best quality you can afford within your budget.
Read Reviews
Look for detailed, unbiased reviews from reputable sex toy reviewers or sex education sites. Pay attention to comments about build quality, strength of vibrations, noise levels, and overall satisfaction.
Buy from Reputable Retailers
Purchase from trusted, body-positive retailers like:
Good Vibrations
Lovehoney
Avoid buying from Amazon or other third-party marketplaces, as counterfeit toys are common. Remember, finding the perfect toy may take some trial and error. Start with something versatile that aligns with your main desires, and don’t be afraid to experiment as you learn more about your preferences. Reputable retailers offer sex toys designed for both men and women, ensuring quality and safety. With some research and exploration, you’re sure to find toys that enhance your pleasure and satisfaction.
How do I Know if a Sex toy is Right for me?
When determining if a sex toy is suitable for anal play, there are several key factors to consider:
Proper preparation and safety tips are essential for a pleasurable anal sex experience. If you are totally befuddled and dont know where to start try this article on choosing your toy based on your astrological sign.
Safety Features
The most important aspect is safety. A proper anal toy must have:
A flared base or wide handle to prevent it from getting lost inside the rectum
Body-safe, non-porous materials like silicone, stainless steel, or glass that can be thoroughly cleaned
Size and Shape
For beginners especially, look for:
A tapered or graduated shape for easier insertion
Smaller sizes to start – many experts recommend beginning with toys no larger than 1-1.5 inches in diameter
Intended Use
Consider how you plan to use the toy:
Butt plugs are great for wearing during other activities or as preparation
Anal beads provide sensation during insertion and removal
Prostate massagers are curved to target the prostate gland
Material
Choose body-safe materials that are:
Non-porous and easy to clean thoroughly
Compatible with your preferred lubricant
Additional Features
Some toys offer extra stimulation through:
Vibration
Texture on the surface
Ability to be temperature-adjusted (glass/metal toys)
Comfort Level
Start with beginner-friendly options if you’re new to anal play. As you gain experience, you can explore more advanced toys. Remember, proper cleaning, ample lubrication, and listening to your body are essential for safe and pleasurable anal play. Never use a toy anally that wasn’t specifically designed for that purpose. With the right toy and preparation, anal play can be a fun addition to your sexual repertoire. Incorporating oral sex with other sexual practices can enhance overall pleasure and intimacy.
Here are some key steps to properly prepare for using an any toy:
Hygiene and Cleanliness
Proper hygiene is crucial for safe and enjoyable anal play:
Have a bowel movement 1-2 hours before play
Take a shower or use gentle wipes to clean the anal area
Consider using an anal douche or enema for deeper cleaning, if desired
Soap and Water
For most anal toys, thorough cleaning with mild, unscented soap and warm water is sufficient.
Lather the toy with soap and rinse thoroughly
Use your hands or a soft cloth to clean all surfaces and crevices
Avoid abrasive tools like scrubbers that could damage the toy’s surface
Sex Toy Cleaner
Specially formulated sex toy cleaners are another good option:
Available as sprays, foams, gels or wipes
Follow the instructions on the product for proper use
Generally involves applying, letting it sit briefly, then rinsing or wiping off
Sterilization
For non-porous toys without electrical components, you can sterilize using:
Boiling water (3-5 minutes)
Dishwasher (top rack, no soap)
Diluted bleach solution (10 parts water to 1 part bleach)
Cleaning Frequency
Clean your anal toys thoroughly before and after each use. This is crucial for maintaining hygiene and preventing bacterial growth.
Drying and Storage
After cleaning:
Dry toys completely with a clean towel or air dry
Store each toy separately in a clean, dry place
Use individual storage pouches or bags if possible
Avoid storing silicone toys together as they can degrade
Relaxation
Being relaxed is essential:
Engage in other forms of sexual stimulation first to get aroused
Practice deep breathing exercises
Take your time and don’t rush
Lubrication
The anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so lube is a must:
Use a generous amount of lubricant
Choose lubes compatible with your toy material (water-based for silicone toys)
Reapply lube frequently during use
Start Small
For beginners, it’s important to start gradually:
Begin with a single lubricated finger or very small anal toy
Use a tapered or graduated shape for easier insertion
Give your body time to adjust to the sensation
Safety Precautions
Always prioritize safety:
Ensure your toy has a flared base to prevent it getting lost inside
Clean toys thoroughly before and after use
Never switch from anal to vaginal play without cleaning the toy first
By following these preparation steps, you’ll set yourself up for a more comfortable and enjoyable experience with anal toys. Remember to listen to your body, go slowly, and stop if you experience any pain or discomfort.
Additional Tips
Consider using condoms on shared toys for easy cleaning
Replace porous toys periodically as they can harbor bacteria over time
Check toys regularly for any signs of damage or degradation
By following these cleaning and maintenance practices, you’ll keep your anal toys hygienic, safe to use, and in good condition for longer. Proper care is essential for both your health and enjoyment. Additionally, proper care of your toys can significantly enhance your sex life by ensuring safety and satisfaction.
